Happy 2020 everyone! I wish you all happiness, health & laughter for the coming year and years ahead! It’s been a hot minute, I went to Japan and never told you guys about it so that’s going to be the next post. Along with pictures and video’s. I’m so excited to show you guys!
Today (8th Jan) I was doing my workout and I suddenly felt a sense of… calm. It took me by surprise and it made me question myself. Let me explain.
So having health anxiety i’m always in tune with what’s going on with my body and if I don’t, i’ll freak out and have an attack until i’m certain of what the problem is. This mean’s i’m constantly on edge. It’s gotten better over the years but it’s still something I have a hard time with. This sense of calm that I had, made me feel normal. I stood there saying to myself.. Is this what normal feels like? I’ve spoken about depersonalization before I think. It’s when you have a out of body experience and it’s something that used to happen a lot to me. It felt like that but I was here and in the moment. It was odd, yet it felt nice and made me ask myself if this is how I used to be. Then it made me ask myself, why am I so used to anxiety being constantly there? I deserve to feel normal, right? Of course this only lasted for an hour max, I started overthinking and you guessed it… anxiety kicked back in.
I want to work on this, this year. 2019 I feel was such an amazing year for me. I gained a lot of my self confidence back and yes I had some ups and downs but who doesn’t. I did things I never even imagined I would have had the chance to do because of my mental health. I’m so damn proud of myself. Which is why this year I feel like I can do more. I won’t get ahead of myself of course but I will push my boundaries and test my limits. I want to do more with my life. See and experience so many things.
I’ve gotten restless and i’m full of anticipation because I want to get the ball rolling from now! However this year I’ve decided i’m not going to plan much.. I’m simply just going to do. I’ve always believed actions speak louder than words… in most circumstances. So i’ll be making movements this year. Silently and patiently, which i’m kind of excited about. I have my doubts of course but i’m trying to see the end goal here. I realise this all sounds so cryptic but I promise you it will all make sense in a few months time!
So update on my mental health. I’m in some kind of funk. I know i’m not depressed I just feel down a lot of the time. I think i’ve gotten used to saying ‘I’m fine’ when i’m really not. I’ve gone back to the ‘I don’t want to bother people with my crap’ routine. I’ve withdrawn again but I think that’s just because i’m evaluating and assessing. I need to start writing in the diary again, it’s been a good few months. You know when you have so many thoughts floating around you don’t know where to start? That’s me and I know it’s better to write but I literally don’t know where to begin. It’s 1 of those, i’ll deal with it all later when I know I shouldn’t and I should deal now. I blame the stubbornness in me. All will be well though. I feel like change will happen soon and then who knows!
Roll on 2020..
Shanai x